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Most Popular Pakistani Wedding Traditions

“It was one of the most difficult things ever”

Pakistani weddings are grand affairs consisting of numerous rituals and various traditions throughout.

They do not culminate in a single day, rather on average they last over a week or even two.

Whether you opt for a lavish wedding or a modest one Pakistani wedding traditions are a must-have.

At large, Pakistani weddings include a nikkah, mayun, mehndi, baraat and walima.

However, it does not stop here. In fact, Pakistani weddings are embedded with cultural traditions that add to the vibrancy of the events.Mehndi Designs for Eid 2020

Dholki

Typically, Pakistani weddings begin with a dholki ceremony which is a part of the pre-celebrations for brides.

This is a ladies-only celebration consisting of family and friends and usually takes place in the week leading up to the mehndi event.

Previously, only the bride’s family and friends would be invited to the dholki night, however, times have changed and some families invite the in-laws to attend.

Traditionally, during the ceremony, women of all ages gather around with one playing the drum also called a dholki with another sitting opposite with a metal spoon tapping against the dhol.

The women play the drum and sing popular wedding songs which are related to teasing the bride, groom and often the mother-in-law.

There is no doubt the dholki celebrations are filled with laughter, happiness and joy. It is certainly the perfect way to kick-start Pakistani weddings.

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Another pre-wedding customary Pakistani wedding tradition is the mayun ceremony.

The event takes place at the bride’s residence amongst family and close relatives.

Traditionally it was known as the beautification tradition in which haldi is applied onto the bride’s skin.

The haldi paste is made from turmeric, sandalwood powder and other oils. It is commonly bought by the groom’s mother and sisters who then apply it to the bride first.

Beside the haldi tradition, the bride’s close friends tie a gana (garland string) onto the bride’s arm.

Alongside the traditions, there is a lot of food, singing and dancing.

The bride’s outfit, makeup and hair is usually kept simple and minimal because of the haldi rasam.

DESIblitz exclusively spoke to Miss B, who recently got married. She revealed that the mayun was her favourite ceremony. She said:

“Pakistani weddings consist of a lot of different traditions and events but without a doubt, as a bride, the mayun was my favourite.

“This is because it was the most stress-free ceremony for me as a bride and my family. I got to sit back and relax while everyone took it in turns to apply haldi on me.

“Also, it was a great opportunity for everyone to let their hair down and dance the night away. My mayun lasted until late at night.”

Undoubtedly, the mayun is the perfect ceremony to alleviate any wedding stress and lighten the mood.

Mehndi

Up next is usually one of the most-loved events, the mehndi. The mehndi can be held as separate events by the bride and groom, or the families can come together to throw one lavish ceremony.

The highly-anticipated mehndi celebrations are filled with dance sequences performed by family and close friends for the couple.

This, of course, is dependent on the family’s preference but sometimes the couple prepares a dance of their own for the guests.

In true Pakistani wedding style, the elders gather around the bride and groom and put leaves on their hands.

The elders then put mehndi on the leaf, oil in their hair and feed them something sweet usually mithai.

The conventional colour for a mehndi bride is yellow, however, over the years this has changed and various mehndi themes have been adopted.

These include a multi-coloured theme, a majestic Mughal theme and many more depending on the bride’s preference.

During the mehndi celebration, the bride’s hands, arms and feet are adorned with beautiful and intricate designs.

It was believed the darker the colour of a bride’s henna the more her mother-in-law loved her.

For the groom, he traditionally wears a vibrant kurta while his close male friends and family wear colourful neck scarves usually to match the theme.

Also, another cultural tradition that takes place during the mehndi ceremony is giving out something sweet to the guests.

Typically, bags of sugar or mithai are distributed amongst the guests as a way of thanking them for attending.

Nikkah

The most significant part of the entire Pakistani wedding ceremony is the nikkah also known as the marriage contract.

The couple exchange vows in front of witnesses and is tied together in sacred matrimony.Mehndi Designs for Eid 2020

The bride and groom must say “kabool hai” which means “I do” three times each, thus binding them in an everlasting relationship.

After this, they each sign the marriage contract knowns as the nikkah-naama which includes the terms and conditions agreed by the couple.

Instantly, after the marriage contract has been signed, the groom’s family hand out wedding favours to all the guests in attendance.

This tradition is considered as an act of joy and merriment.

Interestingly, the nikkah can be held either before or after the dholki, mayun and mehndi or on the day of the baraat. This depends entirely on both families.

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